Sunday Evening, April 27, 2008

Where there are people, there are bound to be various issues and problems that arise from time to time.  Everyone doesn't think the same or see things exactly alike.

A brother who died a few years ago  was quoted as saying that the biggest detriment to the church today was the lack of instruction on dealing with problems. A house divided cannot stand. This evening, Bro Dillow laid out solid biblical principles for resolving conflict, including problems created by differing personality types.

Did you know that it takes two to play catch with a ball?  If one person drops the ball and refuses to throw it back, there would be no game.  Have you ever realized the same goes for arguments?  One person cannot argue alone very well.  At least, not for long!  Usually at the root of all arguments are heart issues such as lack of meekness or humility.  Proverbs 28:25 says a “proud heart stirs up strife”.  What exactly is a proud heart?  It is just someone who wants their own way at all costs.  They are right and they know it and aren’t backing down for anything.  The bible has much to say about this kind of pride.  It is sin, to put it plainly!   

A good attitude to have in any conflict is one of meekness.  Meekness is a fruit of the Spirit (Gal. 5:23) and every Christian should aim to possess more of it.  Meekness says “I give up my right to be right.  I will not push the point.”  Jesus demonstrated this attitude on the cross, even though He was right.  He submitted to the wishes of the people.  Meekness will go a long way in solving conflicts.  While some personalities are harder to get along with than others, if we endeavor hard enough, it can be done.  We should never let “personality differences” keep up from working together nor be a cover up for more serious heart sins.