Sunday Morning, October 4, 2009,
Hebrews 13:5 Let
your conversation be without covetousness: and be content with such
things as ye have, for he hath said I will never leave thee nor
forsake thee.
This morning Sis
Debbie brought a lesson that was based on a devotional from C W
Naylor titled "My Dream Message". It is included below for
reference.
She started out the
lesson by passing out Skittles to all. They were unevenly
distributed and some received more than others. She asked everyone
if they were happy with the amount of Skittles they had each
received. Clearly, some of the younger ones in attendance were not
real happy that some of the others got more than they did. It was
then that Sis Debbie reminded them that even if they only received
one Skittle, it was more than they had before they were handed out.
The object of the lesson was to be content with such things as ye
have.
Some things are
beyond our reach. We will never attain them. Be satisfied with
what you do have. There will always be someone who has more than
you or who may be more gifted or talented than you and longing to be
like them will ruin our appreciation for what we have.
I Tim 6:6
Godliness with contentment is great gain.
Below is an excerpt
from the devotion that inspired the lesson.
A dream is a dream,
and possibly not more than one in ten thousand come from God. There
are times, however, when we may learn good lessons from our dream
thoughts as well as from our waking thoughts. One such dream I once
had, and the lesson I derived from it has been good for my soul. I
dreamed that I stood beside a gigantic wild rosebush. In my hand I
held one of the fragrant flowers. I looked at is and drank in its
rich perfume, but I saw a great number of flowers, and I desired
more than the one, so I held it in my left hand and began to reach
up for others. They were very high, so I pressed against the outer
limbs and stretched to my utmost, but they were too high; I could
not get them. I stepped back from the bush. As I did so, my gaze
fell upon the rose in my hand just in time to see its petals fall to
the ground. In stretching for those beyond my reach, I had ruined
the one that was already mine. I gazed upon the empty stem in my
hand and at the bruised petals upon the ground with a feeling of
regret.
The scene changed. I
sat at a desk with pencil and paper, and in my dream wrote these
words: "If you have but one rose, enjoy it to the full. Do not let
its perfume be wasted upon the empty air, and its beauty go
unnoticed, while you spend your time in vain longing for the
unattainable." When I awoke I wrote down the words that I had
written in my dream, and through the years they have preached to me
many a sermon. How natural it is for us to forget what we have while
we look at others whom we think to be more fortunate! We look at the
blessings that others enjoy and forget to be thankful for our own.
We look at others' possessions, and because they are greater than
ours, we fail to appreciate what we have. Our position in life may
be very humble, but however humble, our life is full of blessings if
we but have eyes to see them.
When I had this
dream, my health was gone, and I lay alone in my bed throughout the
long hours of the day while my wife was away working for our
support. My eyes were so I could read but a very little. We had two
rooms in a house with another family. All around us were people with
health and plenty. I could easily realize the difference between my
situation and theirs. Sometimes I would look out of the window and
see people passing, strong and vigorous and carefree. I would hear
the gay laughter and the sound of happy voices, while I--there I lay
suffering and alone. How easy it was to see their blessings! And in
seeing theirs, how easy it was to forget my own!
But this dream came
upon the morning of my birthday; and as I lay there thinking it
over, I determined that in the coming year I would not let my one
rose be spoiled because I was reaching for that which was beyond my
reach. I decided to enjoy my own blessings. If others were more
blessed than I, should I not rejoice in the fact? Longing to be like
them would not make me so. If I had but little to enjoy, I would
enjoy that little. So I began to look at my blessings, and as I
looked them over I found them greater than I had supposed. I had
many things to give comfort. I had food to satisfy my hunger. I had
a home and clothing. I had the loving care of a faithful wife. I had
kind friends who gave to me freely of their sympathy and who were
ready to grant my every wish so far as it lay in their power. Better
than all else, I had the peace of God in my heart. I began to
realize that my state might be far worse.
The more I thought,
the more I saw for which to be thankful. The more I considered my
blessings, the more I appreciated them. And many a time since have I
looked out upon the passers-by or listened to their merriment, and
have said to myself, "I would not exchange places with you; for I am
saved; I have the treasure of God's love; I have the presence of the
Holy Sprit; I have the joys of salvation; I have a mansion in
heaven." I knew that most of the passers-by did not have these
things, and so I was blessed more than they. What were health and
strength when put to a wrong use? What were temporal blessings that
ministered only to selfishness? What were the joy and gaiety that
ignored God? What were the pleasures of sin, when they only laid up
a harvest of sorrow? Ah no, I had no reason to envy them, for my
blessings were greater and would not fade away like mist before the
sin.
My brother, my sister,
you may be happy in your own little corner if you will learn the
lesson of enjoying what you have. Learn to be content with common
things. Learn that the truest joy does not come from external
things. It springs spontaneously from a contented heart. If God
wills that you be situated as you are, will he not make you happy
where you are? The Bible says, "Godliness with contentment is great
gain…Having food and raiment let us be therewith content" (1 Tim.
6:6-8). You may not have much of this world's goods; you may not
have many talents; your blessings may seem few; but remember my
dream message--"If you have but one rose, enjoy it to the full." If
another has both hands filled, he may enjoy them less than
abundance. Do not spend your days in vain longing. Do not despise
what you have because it is not greater. Cultivate the habit of
thankfulness and appreciation. Be glad for what you have. Be
contented. Better your condition if you can, but do not spoil what
you have in reaching for more. If you have but one talent, use it
for the Lord and be thankful for it. Do not depreciate it because
others have several talents. Use it and be content. Happiness
consists not in the things we have, but in our appreciation and use
of them. So enjoy your one rose. Drink in its sweet perfume; gaze
upon its beauteous colors. Enjoy it to the full. |